Where I Post The Thing I Forgot To Tell You

A few months ago I got some exciting news. I started doing some research (okay I asked twitter) about how many people had given birth or were due to give birth in 2010. I was going to call it Year Of The Baby. Probably draw some parallels between unemployment rates and the suffering economy and what people due with with their time when they have no money…

But I never got around to it. And in never writing that post, I forgot to share a special story about Sparkles. If you have read my about me page, you know I have an “adopted” (not legally) son named Sparkles. He was been a very close part of our family life for many, many years. He did in fact live with us for a time, and has been at everyone of our special family events ever since then. Mr. Vixen and I love him as dearly as we love our (biological) son. I am his “other” mother and she and I don’t mind sharing. He is quiet, sweet, caring, loyal and I can always count on him to help me out no matter what. Just like my other kids.

Point is, he is(was) expecting his first child August 30th-ish. And I had ultrasounds to share and a plan for you all to help me come up with the baby’s super secret internet name. Well, sometimes life takes your choices and decisions out of your hands. Early this week, Sparkles’ girlfriend (let’s call her SusyQ because she isn’t real fond of her original super secret Internet name) was put on bed rest due to some signs of preeclampsia and her high blood pressure. Then an issue with the protein in her urine became worse and she went for a nights stay at the hospital for monitoring. Things got a little better, then a little worse, then a little better. Well you get the idea. Yesterday, we stopped by on our way to visit the horses and drop off some books for her to read. A perinatologist had read her ultrasounds and thought possibly the baby was 2-3 weeks further along than they thought. She had also received two steroid injections to help speed up the little guys lung development. But before we could leave the hospital the doc returned after visiting with the perinatologist and reviewing her chart (and headaches) and said he wanted to induce NOW. He explained the risks (apparently high blood pressure spikes are a leading cause of placental abruption) to the baby and the huge risks to SusyQ herself, including stroke and coma. She was not prepared to say the least. Tears were shed. In the end, she decided to proceed.

An hour or two later, I got the phone call from Sparkles that things were not going well and it was time for an emergent c-section. We live only moments from the hospital, so we got there in a flash.

Long story (and not getting any shorter) I would like to welcome my newest grandson Sean Liam into the world. He is quite small at 3 lbs 6 ozs and is in the NICU, but seems okay. Mom is well and recovered quickly. So: First sorry I forgot to tell you we were having another kid (whoopsie) and second…can you help me come up with a super secret Internet name for this little one? I know  you guys can have a  name picked out by the time I get back, because I am heading there now to see him IN PERSON because I haven’t got to hold him yet!!! (click on pictures for full view.)


What the caterpillar calls the end of the world, the Master calls a butterfly


Nobody can go back and start a new beginning, but anyone can start today and make a new ending


  1. I had no idea about the placental abruption it could cause! On top of all the other problems, that’s just terrifying!

    I’m so glad he and mama seem to be doing well. He’s a beautiful little guy.

    hmmm…super secret internet name… How about something like Mr. Express. In honor of him, deciding to join the world earlier than expected?

  2. His size makes me think “Peanut”. “Bud” for his earliness and tiny size. “Chip” as in a Chip off the ol’ Block. “Presto” as in “Presto…you have a baby!” Just a few thoughts…hope all is well with the new family!

  3. Praying for little Sean Liam. Don’t give him a whimpy internet name! :0)

  4. Congrats! I was wondering what all those tweets were about yesterday.

  5. due to lack of a brain (no sleep with a newborn around lol) I can’t help with the name, but I can say CONGRATS!!! And yay for another blessing around. Glad all is going good and really glad mom had some good Drs.

  6. That sounds scary and then some but I am glad it seems they are all right. I will send my good thoughts to baby and mommy and your family too!

  7. Blessings to the new baby. Hope he grows fast and strong.And No idea for a name. I agree no wimpy names.
    Welcome to the world Sean.

  8. Congratulations looong time!!!
    For a souper seaquit name I wood name him Great Reader.

  9. Oh how sweet! I will keep him in my prayers. He will be getting stronger every day, I am sure!

  10. That’s kinda funny, Vixen, that you forgot to tell us y’all were having another baby. 🙂 🙂 🙂 (three smiles, one for baby, one for mom and one for dad.)



  11. How about June Bug for a super secret name? He’s a June baby, and as cute as a bug. Small as one, too! Of course, the name June Bug will probably wear out pretty fast as soon as the kid hits 12, 13 years old…

    Sorry I haven’t commented much. I read your posts in the blog reader. I’m renovating my home and it’s just crazy here. But I am still here, lurking in the shadows of your blog! 😀

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