One Thousand, Four Hundred and Sixty Days

Image(037) Although I could only watch you through the window and they told me it was hopeless, I felt your power and your strength. You were everything to me. Beauty, love, hope. Despair, doubt, and denial surrounded you, but your heart was a shining beacon that called to me silently, pleading for faith. I handed everything to you those days. My life, my future, my faith, my belief in God. And I have been so rewarded. Although I never would want to return to those days during which you suffered and were in pain, I do long for that conviction again. That complete faith. That sense of hope.

Looking back now, it seems so far away. How can four years have passed? In those four years you have given us great gifts of everyday life and you have scared me worse than I have ever been scared before. One thousand, four hundred and sixty days that I could not have lived without you. One thousand, four hundred and sixty days you have taught me about life and death, hope and faith; and I am grateful for every single moment of each one, good and bad.


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I kissed your fingers and forehead

So relieved you had arrived that early April morning

Hugged your mommy and left her to rest

The ringing phone interrupted my dreams of you

The frightened voice crying on the other end saying something was wrong with you, come quick

I gazed at you through the window, now with tubes and wires instead of a little pink hat

Doctors rocking my foundation with words about strokes and massive brain damage

“You can let her go. Unhook and let her be. We will support you.” They intoned quietly.

You whispered in my heart, “I am here. I am love. Have faith in me and God.”

Eleven days of hell on earth, watching through the window. Never hearing good news.

“We will take her home. We believe.”

One thousand, four hundred and sixty days we’ve had now. Every one of them a gift I cherish.

Today we celebrate your fourth birthday. A miracle.


Almost Empty Nest = Full Garden


It does not require a majority to prevail, but rather an irate, tireless minority keen to set brush fires in people’s minds ~Sam Adams


  1. That was beautiful! Happy Birthday to the little lady!!!!

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  2. *sniffles* She’s so beautiful! Happy birthday, Ladybug!!!

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  3. Mar

    Happy Birthday Ladybug!!

  4. That’s so sweet – I hope she has an awesome birthday with lots of cake!!! :-0…

  5. Happy birthday to the little sweetie! You made me cry Vixen!!

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  6. What a lovely tribute!

  7. Oh my. Bless your heart and bless hers. Happy birthday, babygrrrll! And happy OtGF, mama!

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  8. Happy Birthday and what a beautiful tribute to LadyBug.

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  9. Happiest birthday little Ladybug.

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  10. Happy birthday! Sweet and poignant poem. I love your family.

  11. Happy Birthday to such a sweetie. What an awesome tribute.

  12. Way to go, you made me cry. One thousand, four hundred and sixty priceless days, I am so thankful.

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  13. Happy, happy birthday, beloved little girl.

  14. Ladybug is so precious. Happy “new year” to her. May she grace your life for tens of thousands of years to come.

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  15. Sue

    Happy Birthday to your little miracle. 🙂

  16. What a sweetie pie!! Happy Birthday!!

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  17. DJ

    I hope she had a wonderful 4th birthday!

  18. Happy, happy birthday. Miracles do happen – I live with one too.

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  19. That was really beautiful 🙂 I am so glad to be able to read and see someone whose got so much joy in their lives.

    God Bless you and yours

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  20. Oh, most happy birthday and what a beautiful post! I’m so glad you have your miracle baby in your life and have had four years of joy.

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